Jeremy Kyle advised Steve Dymond to ‘develop a pair of balls and inform her the God-damn reality’ days earlier than the visitor was discovered useless, an inquest has heard.
Mr Dymond, 63, is believed to have killed himself one week after filming for the programme in Could 2019.
Kyle was accused of ‘throwing Mr Dymond below the bus’ when he failed a lie detector check on the present, however the former presenter has in the present day argued he has an ’empathetic’ on-air fashion.
Within the inquest into Mr Dymond’s loss of life in the present day, his look on the programme was performed performed for the primary time.
He had signed as much as the present in 2019 to attempt to show to his associate Jane Callaghan that he hadn’t been dishonest on her.
Jeremy Kyle advised Steve Dymond to ‘develop a pair of balls and inform her the God-damn reality’ days earlier than his loss of life, an inquest has heard (inventory photograph)
Mr Dymond, 63, is believed to have killed himself seven days after showing on the programme in 2019
Kyle is giving proof on the inquest in the present day
However, when the lie detector check concluded he was not telling the reality, Kyle mentioned: ‘I would not belief you with a chocolate button mate, I do not assume what the reality is.’
Kyle in the present day advised Winchester Coroner’s Courtroom that Mr Dymond’s was simply one other ‘typical’ visitor on his present and insisted that he confirmed him ’empathy’.
Giving proof for the primary time, the TV presenter denied ‘belittling’ or ‘humilating’ Mr Dymond and mentioned he displayed ‘care’ for the 63-year-old.
Kyle, 59, claimed he had been ‘very complimentary’ of Mr Dymond and mentioned he tried to ‘de-escalate’ and ‘settle down’ him down when he sobbed over his failed lie detector outcomes.
The present, filmed in 2019, was seen for the primary time in the present day as elements have been proven at Mr Dymond’s inquest.
Throughout the clips, Kyle manufacturers the 63-year-old a ‘liar’ and slams ‘I do not assume what the reality is’.
Mr Dymond went on the present to attempt to show he wasn’t dishonest on his associate, Jane.
He failed a lie detector check and was discovered useless seven days after filming.
The court docket this week heard that the 63-year-old died at his house from a mixture of morphine overdose and left ventricular hypertrophy in his coronary heart.
Mr Dymond died in Could 2019 – seven days after showing on the Jeremy Kyle present
The 63-year-old went on the present to attempt to show he wasn’t dishonest on fiancée Jane Callaghan (pictured)
My Dymond failed his lie detector check on the programme
WhatsApp messages between producers about Mr Dymond have been learn out in court docket in the present day
Footage of the programme exhibits Kyle getting into the stage saying My Dymond was accused of mendacity about his age, about being within the Royal Navy, about grandchildren, and about viagra gone lacking.
Kyle then tells Mr Dymond, after wanting on the lie detector outcomes: ‘The check says you are a liar, you failed each single check.’
As Mr Dymond sobs, he tells him: ‘I would not belief you with a chocolate button mate, I do not assume what the reality is.’
He added: ‘Be a person and develop a pair of balls and inform her the god-damn reality.’
On the stand in the present day, Kyle admitted he was ‘direct’ however mentioned his on-stage behaviour was a ‘presenter persona’ and that he was ‘paid to do a job’.
He additionally revealed he by no means acquired coaching to take care of highly-charged emotional conditions – however mentioned he had ‘whole religion’ in his staff.
Giving proof, Kyle in the present day mentioned: ‘What I see in these clips is, from the second Steve Dymond comes out, I used to be very complimentary.
‘I referred to as him mate, I referred to as him pal, we had a little bit of a joke.
‘I de-escalated and I calmed down, ‘we’re going to put you backstage’.
‘It was about battle decision.
‘For me, that is what the present was about, battle decision, and folks that got here on the present knew that.
‘The folks that got here on the present have been conscious of the strategy.
‘It had been on the air for 15 years, I feel the strategy for battle decision was at all times the identical.
‘Sure, it was direct, nevertheless it was manufactured…
‘You may see empathy and that’s, in essence how I noticed it and the way I see it.
‘I feel that persona was truly very, very common and steady.
‘Sure, it was direct, it was additionally caring.
‘I take a look at these clips and I see that journey.’
Kyle mentioned he had ‘whole religion’ within the manufacturing and aftercare groups and reiterated once more he had ‘no involvement’ within the choice course of.
‘I met Steve Dymond for, I feel, quarter-hour,’ he mentioned.
‘I used to be 100 per cent that he should have advised a lie as a result of while you inform a lie you fail the entire thing.’
Requested if he had acquired any specialist coaching to take care of friends, he mentioned: ‘No.
‘The present developed, it was a personality, a component, however I understood from day one it is about battle decision so it concerned many points of many tales and many various approaches.’
He continued: ‘I hate to say it, to me that was a typical Jeremy Kyle half.
‘Sure, the gentleman was emotional, he had rung 40 to 50 occasions, he wished to come back on the present and we facilitated that…
‘We did what we at all times did for 15 years – present an aftercare service and sure… I moved onto the subsequent visitor.
‘I do not consider he was humiliated.
‘Apparently I referred to as him a traitor and I did not.
‘I repeat, it was the present the identical as I understood the present.
‘As unhappy as it’d sound, it was a typical half.’
Kyle additionally mentioned: ‘I do know there was an oil tanker of WhatsApp messages and texts [from Mr Dymond].
‘I heard individuals say my strategy to Steve Dymond was met with concern – there’s not one textual content message that complains about my behaviour.
‘I am the presenter – I did not create the present. I used to be paid to do a job.’
Kyle mentioned he thought he had a ‘double safety blanket’ as a result of Mr Dymond acquired help from the ITV aftercare staff and since his GP had written a letter.
‘It is at all times been and at all times might be battle decision’, he mentioned of his cancelled present.
‘I simply wish to make the purpose I had in my 14 and a half years no involvement within the choice course of and the aftercare of any of the friends.
‘I used to be employed because the presenter and that was the benchmark of the job I did.
Requested how a lot of his presenting was ‘creative’, Kyle mentioned: ‘I feel I used to be directed quite a bit since you could be [given] the knowledge the staff offered you with.’
On his ‘fashion’, he mentioned: ‘I at all times consider that the tales have been a journey and… for Steve Dymond’s half you see that journey.
‘You see there’s a nice introduction, face the reality, then empathy on the finish.. let’s attempt to discover some reconciliation.
‘I at all times consider that was the proper strategy.
‘Totally different approaches for various friends.’
He denied ‘belittling’ Mr Dymond and denied that ‘humiliation was a part of battle decision’.
Kyle additionally mentioned: ‘It was time for him to resist the reality and he admitted he lied many occasions… I noticed Jane determined for him to inform her the reality as a result of she beloved him.
‘I requested them to present him a spherical of applause once I left the stage.’
On the ‘I would not belief you with a chocolate button’ remark, he mentioned: ‘I do not know in regards to the chocolate button remark – I’ve considered that for a lot of months.
‘I do not know the place that got here from.’
Kyle mentioned he ‘genuinely had nice admiration’ for friends on his present.
The inquest continues.
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